Mid Year Friendship Checkup
Written by: Jillian Terry, University of Detroit-Mercy
MASC/MAHS College Volunteer Facilitator Corps Member

As I am getting ready to start my second semester of college and new year, I began to reflect the previous years. In the last year, I graduated from high school, attended my first JAM Camp as a Junior Counselor, and started a new chapter of my life in college. One of the hardest things to do when starting this new chapter was leaving my friends and family. Although we promised to stay best friends forever, our friendships were surely put to the test. We could go days without talking to each other, and sometimes even weeks. The few text messages you received were enough to brighten your day. You just got so busy with classes, work, sports, new friends, everything. As time went on, I found myself missing my friends so much. When I got home for break, I tried to catch up with as many friends as possible. No matter how much time has passed, I knew we could pick up right where we left off. I was correct, and it was a blast spending time with all of my friends from home. However, I promised myself that I would work on keeping better contact with my friends. Whether it is a quick text, Facebook message, Tweet, or even a phone call at least once a week, I promised to not let my other friendships suffer. Best friends are hard to come by, and they will always be there for you through the thick and thin. I encourage everyone who have drifted away from their friends to contact them and let your friends know you care. Branch out, and go out on a limb! Chances are, your friends miss you too! That one text, tweet, or call can be enough to make their day and keep your friendship going.